Sunday, May 2, 2010

8 months

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This handsome little dude turned 8 months old yesterday! We had a picnic on the Christopher Street Pier with Joanna, then walked around the Village enjoying the sunshine and people watching. Today the fun continues -- we plan to spend some time in the park and strolling around the Upper West Side.

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The awesome heart onesie was sent to us for review by the nice folks at the Scandinavian children's clothier, Vyssan Lull. It's by the line, Sture & Lisa, and is 100% eco and fair trade cotton. And 100% cute, of course!

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Eight months in, the brothers continue to solidify their dynamic-duo superpowers. J wears a Sygryn Elephant shirt, also from Vyssan Lull.

Of course, this eight month milestone brings with it memories of the wonderful day W came into the world. We were safe. We were together. We were happy. We were home.

With all of the craziness concerning the loss of the choice of legal home birth in NYC, my heart aches for all the pregnant mamas that are out there right now, wondering what to do. I feel blessed that I had the chance to have two glorious home births, but also a little guilty that I didn't realize the tenuousness of that right, which has now been lost. I want to help restore every family's right to a home birth, but it is hard to know where to start. I've called and written, and signed the petition. I've blogged and tweeted, but I want to do more.

A NYC midwife, Kristen Leonard, sent this message out to encourage home birth supporters and it includes great information for taking concrete steps towards change:

Hi Everyone,
Many people are asking me, after having called the DOH and the
governor's office, what else they can do to help. The short term
solution is difficult but the long term solution is clear -
elimination of the requirement for a written practice agreement in
addition to licensure to practice. There is legislation that has been
introduced in both the State Assembly and Senate to do this. It is
called the Midwifery Modernization Act (MMA). We have sponsors in
both the Assembly and the Senate but the more sponsors and/or
supporters the more likely it is to pass. This is our moment to
really make sure this legislation is passed. Calling and writing your
legislators is crucial but making an appointment and meeting them in
their district offices to discuss the MMA will have even more impact.
If you have never done this, it is much easier than you imagine. They
are very happy to talk to constituents and hear their concerns. You
can find more information about the bill and talking points at
NYSALM.org and freeourmidwives.
org. You can go to
http://www.nysenate.gov and to http://assembly.state.ny.us to find who your legislators are if you don't know. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE do this! The legislators have specifically
said that they need to hear from consumers on this issue. Going into their offices and telling them your story can really make adifference!
Thanks for all of the support!
Kristen

I plan to follow Kristen's urging and meet with my local legislators. I've never done something like that before, but I've never felt this passionate about fighting for a specific right before, so the time is now! Let me know if you are interested in doing the same thing, and perhaps we could form a group of moms/families that can all go for the meetings together. There is strength in numbers. Leave a comment or email me if you're interested. XOXO, Leigh

15 comments:

  1. I would be willing to go. I had a wonderful homebirth with JJB midwifery 14 months ago..... this is just unimaginable.

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  2. Yes, let's team up! My senator is Eric Adams and assemblymen is Hakeem Jeffries. Maybe we can find buddies in our districts to team up with?

    One other thing I've been thinking is, when a doctor tells you they can't work with you anymore, they legally have to provide you with care for 30 days and facilitate a transition to a new provider. I feel like there should be a similar stipulation for women who are due in the next 30 days or so. It is so unreasonable to expect an 8 month + pregnant woman to research and find a new care provider, especially when the stats are against "natural birth" in the city...

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  3. Happy 8 months, beautiful kiddo!!

    Loving the brother duo super powers!!

    Would definitely like to go speak to NY legislators with you if you end up going when I'm in town ... or I can babysit while you & compatriots go.

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  4. Happy Birthday, W! Wow, time flies. I remember first reading your blog, which just so happened to be when you gave birth to the little man. Crazy! Hope you guys have a wonderful day. :)

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  5. The time has flown by so quickly. They're both growing up so fast. Thanks for the great photos!

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  6. Would love to join the group effort!
    marycatherinehamelin@gmail.com

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  7. We've already organized a group via the Flatbush Family Network to go see Sen. Kevin Parker. He hope to go at the end of this week if we can schedule it.

    Good luck!

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  8. OMG!! I cannot believe New York actually made home-birth illegal. I'm in total shock. I always thought NY was a progressive state. This is massive step backwards! I live in Toronto and no one would EVER think of making home-birth illegal here. How on earth did this happen???!!!

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  9. sure, i'm in!

    and happy 8 months! love the pics.

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  10. Good for you, Leigh! Thanks for making your voice heard on this important issue.

    stephanie@metropolitanmama.net

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  11. Happy 8 months kiddo! You sure are handsome? I wonder what your super power is? Mine would be teleportation.

    Good luck with your home birth fight for NYC Leigh, I'm fighting in this corner of the globe for us all too. xx

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  12. Great photos you got here!!! Your 8-month-old baby boy is super cute!!! And I like the pictures of him with his brother. They're really enjoying each other's company. They are amazing. The onesies are very adorable. I love those heart designs. Thanks.

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  13. Please count Oskar, Dan and me in for any effort that is organized!

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